Students Take Wing
In my third year of teaching, I taught a newspaper journalism class. One day as the students
were working on an issue of the school newspaper, I overheard several of them animatedly
discussing a recent problem in the school in
which one student used Facebook to disparage
another student. Students began referring to
what they had learned in our class about slander
and how social media aren’t exempt from such
laws. Then I heard a student say, “I think we
have a story here!” As the entire student staff
developed the story and several companion
stories about social media and teens, I never said
a word—I just sat there smiling. The students
completed the issue and published a wonderful
story. When I realized that they had learned how
to operate without my guidance, I knew I had
done my job.
—Chris Canter, assistant principal,
Spalding Drive Charter Elementary School,
Sandy Springs, Georgia
Please Stay!
I never intended to stay in education; my plan
was to teach for a year and then complete law
school. In April of my first year, I informed my
principal that I would not be returning. Quickly,
word got out to my students and then to their
parents, and in the remaining six weeks of the
school year I received many heartfelt thank-you
notes and kind words from the entire school
community. The words of one student, Laron,
made a special impression. One day after school
as I was tutoring him, he said, “No teacher has
ever cared about us as much as you have. There
are so many of us who wish you would stay.
The biggest lesson you’ve taught us is that life
is bigger than ourselves; we must give back to
others.” At that moment, I knew I had been in
the right profession all along. It’s been more than
10 years since I withdrew my resignation, and
I’ve never regretted it.
—Dallas Dance,
chief school officer, middle schools,
Houston Independent School District, Texas
Expanding Students’ Worlds
My 9th graders were studying Of Mice and Men
and discussing how characters in the novel had
to cross barriers of intelligence, age, race, and
gender to form unlikely friendships. In relating
the theme to their lives, most students stated that
their social connections did not reach beyond
our community. So we arranged for these 9th
graders in a suburban, coed, public high school
to become pen pals with students at an urban,
all-boys, Catholic high school in the neighboring
county.
A Positive Word
I was teaching 8th graders in an assignment that
was challenging for a first-year teacher. I found
my third-period class especially difficult. Allen
was one of my biggest discipline problems. One
day he was cooperative in class; I seized the
moment, and that afternoon I called his mom
to tell her how proud I was of him. The next
morning, as I was going into the school, Allen
ran up to show me his new sneakers, a reward
from his mom in response to my positive phone
call. Allen told other students, who began asking
when I was going to call home about them.
That’s when I realized the power of building
positive relationships with kids—especially those
who have learned to push teachers away.
—Susan Kessler, executive principal,
Hunters Lane Comprehensive High School,
Nashville, Tennessee
““I am proud to be ‘just’ a teacher.
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A Well-Timed Hug
I found the challenge of student teaching simultaneously exhilarating and nerve-wracking. My
postsecondary tool kit of theory and training